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| | LL Style | 12:20:23 PM | 01/Sep/08
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On second thoughts, LL. I feel I must apologise for my outburst. Actually, last night my wife snubbed me saying I am a selfish guy. In frustration I came here and said all that. Actually, I have had a disturbed childhood and been troubled by its painful memories. A father who would return late at night, totally drunk, from God knows where and a frustrated mom who would take it out all on us. As a result, I developed this attitude towards women in general. So I guess when I see you so strongly and wisely demolishing the opponents, the complexities within me rise up and I start feeling uncomfortable. The fact is that being a person with many complexes, I am scared to face myself bluntly and therefore prefer to hide behind anonymous masks. At times I simply hate myself for such cowardly acts. Thanks for making me realise the serious deficiencies within me. |
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| | LL Style | 03:24:00 AM | 01/Sep/08
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8. She might be a revolutionary thinker but her blindness to her own flaws makes her ideas impotent. In the age of free thinking, she wants to demolish dissent. And no one needs to study Psychology 101 to know that anyone behaving this way is insecure in her own position.
If LL wants you to accept her words without a valid reason, you can put to test what I say and then only accept it.
How to test : On any topic, not for the sake of a debate, but where you wholeheartedly disagree with LL's views, try a debate against her. She will use all the tricks in her bag to demolish you, sadly she should only be demolishing your argument and not you.
If you agree with her, you get rewarded. If you don't, you get punished. What kind of teacher is that?
*Why believe me? Read LL's arguments and visit the link http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy and see for yourself.
At the bottom of the page are links to what I added above. |
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| | LL Style | 03:22:52 AM | 01/Sep/08
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LL's argument style
I have been watching how LL behaves on iland for the past 3 months and here I present LL's style.
1. Her posts contain radical ideas touching many contemporary topics.
2. She says she is always open to debates.
3. And people wholeheartedly join these.
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4. She does not know how to debate fairly.
5. In the middle of a debate, if anyone says that she is a teacher and has a reputation in the non-virtual world, does that mean her logic is correct? - *An appeal to authority
6. In a debate, no one starts name calling and character analysis. That is totally out of scope of the debate, but this is exactly what she does. The proper way is to oppose (not ridicule) the argument and not the speaker - *An ad hominem argument
7. She or her supporters (in the debate) are ready to introduce different topics in her debates but she will totally forbid her opponents to do the same, ridiculing their mental age comparing it to a child - *An ad hominem argument |
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| | VTECH | 07:32:33 AM | 31/Aug/08
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grave ko dekh kay kya...jab pustak(s) etnay acchay likhay hai...tho woh pad kar hi yaad kar lay hum unhay.
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Woh toh hum mazaak may kah rahee thay(?) :)
Anyway.... "critical" statements where more with some stuff your character says/does. But I guess that is highly subjective too naa. But I found it hard to swallow. Baaki description vagarah bahut he khboob hai. Keep it churning. I love(d) to read it. One day in near future you sure are going to take over likes of Margaret and leave them far-far behind. Have you read Wally Lamb. I LOVED his second book. For a Looooooonnnnnnggg time his book was in mind & heart....so touched I was by it. But maybe it is not for everyone?
Apram paarkalame!
Poittu varén! |
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| | Divyani | 10:16:24 PM | 28/Aug/08
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kisnay kaha "non-returning"???
Aur kisnay kaha hum Desi hai.
Ho sakta hai kay hum 100% amerikan ho....aur accha hindi jantay ho. Ya ho sakta hai hamrey ek parent India ho...ya....lot of possibilities no?
Now are you ready for critical evaluation of your story and some serious heart breaks? do you want it in private or public? LOL
:)))))))))
Cheers...take it easy. |
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| | Divyani | 10:02:24 PM | 28/Aug/08
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ivory tower kay pass rahkar thoda intellectual effect hum pay bhi pad gaya.
And GWTW was a quiz.....you passed.....
Margaret ka ghar, kabar etc etc are near my home...never visited though.
hahahha |
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| | ekantapadhika | 09:32:16 PM | 28/Aug/08
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| | |  NOIDA
sab kuchh aur kuchh bhi
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So Divyani is an American? And what's wrong with that post?. You tell me. I can't figure it out. |
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| | Divyani | 07:29:23 PM | 27/Aug/08
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Thanks for blessing us Kush, on behalf of god :)))
We in turn will bless the whole world.
:))))))))))))))))))))))
How goes it for the godfather putra?
See ya....after all, tomorrow is another day! |
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| | ekantapadhika | 04:58:01 PM | 27/Aug/08
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| | | NOIDA
sab kuchh aur kuchh bhi
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Why should God bless only America? |
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| | Sarath Chandra | 12:27:33 AM | 21/Aug/08
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Physics, philosophy,
statistics, sports,
movies, religion. | |
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If you are really selfish, I guess, you have to find a way to take criticism.
People usually complain that others don't take criticism well. However, I don't think it is as simple as that. Criticism, most of the times, is accompanied by personal disapproval, and people react to the disapproval and ignore the criticism. If criticism is offered without the disapproval, I think, there is a 50% chance of it being received well :)
I personally try to separate criticism from dislike, and react only to the criticism. I think it helps if we don't depend too much on others for our evaluation of self-worth. More bluntly, it helps if we don't care too much for what others think of ourselves :)) take it as a feedback to improve ourself in our own eyes.
As for talking to ghosts, why not? They can make valid points, ask valid questions, and can have valid reasons for communicating as ghosts. We can easily think of scenarios where "good" people can choose to communicate as ghosts. |
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